This Christmas has been totally different from what we have been used to. Not only did we not do the usual rush, neither did we spent it with our usual family members. We miss our dear ones who have gone before us in 2011. But it is by far the best gathering my HB & I have had.
It was a coming together of a family of Christ… And just like a normal family, we had laughed at each other (and hold no ill); fought – had disagreements but there’s always a brother/sister to sort us out & then it’s ok again; cried together; prayed & supported each other - whenever there was a need; through this year. And just like any family, some siblings are closer to each other, while we try to engage the rest.
What’s so special about this family? We are not brothers & sisters, grandma nor grandkids by bloodline, but through Christ, who has brought us together. In this family, we can be ourselves, we are accepted for who we are – no need for masks, no need for pretence. For HB & I, this family is closer to our hearts than our own blood siblings. The support & love that has flowed unconditionally had often left HB & I speechless.
So, what was so special about this Christmas gathering? It wasn’t just socialising over good food; nor empty small talks; nor trying to humour another by just being there. It was a sharing of hearts… Nic had earlier mentioned that it might be good for the choir members after us know how we ended in the choir and how it has grown, etc. And so Nic started the ball-rolling. What happened after that was the work of Jesus. In the 6 years, we have been in the choir, we have never had a sharing in such a group. But as the sharings continued round the room, I got a better picture of how Christ had brought us together… to be companions on this journey on earth. The sharings were deep & heart tugging and with such openess. We learnt more about each other, and more importantly we thank all for sharing and allowing us to be part of their lives.
This Ministry is no longer one which we would do our duty & be gone, like when it was when HB & I started. I always believed that being in a Ministry should have it’s privileges. One which is not only able to support each other in prayers; but to reach out to others, let them know that “hey, we are here for you. You are not alone on this journey.” When a person feels a sense of belonging, it is more likely for them to stay. LOL! Well, that was my ‘motive’ then. We were in need for more members 
In reflection, I’ve just come to realise, and TOTALLY humbled, that God would have listened - had answered – and has made this believe into a reality. It has taken 6 years to come to fruition!! :D
A beautiful CHRISTmas indeed. And I thank you Lord. I definitely will never be able to outdo your generosity. Grant me the graces to keep humble and allow me to continue to serve You in the way that You want.
Matthew 5:14-16
Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it gives light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father, which is in heaven.
